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Ann Thorton's avatar

Your final comment: Only parents can reverse this trend; American authoritarianism is born in its “free” public schools" holds the key. Lax parenting is where this began - parents who have resigned the job of actual parenting and just give their children to the government, to the schools, to raise. almost from birth onward. They do not support the school in this endeavor; their child can do no wrong, so any problems must be the school's fault (i.e. the teacher). In my mind, this started back in the sixties or perhaps even earlier, with Dr. Spock parenting and the whole anti-authoritarian movement. It took a few years to to drift into the schools. But unless parents retake their role as the authorities in their child's life, and support the teacher in his/her role as authority, it's not going to change. I don't know how teachers do it. I gave up as soon as I started, after only a couple of years, and yes, I had a master's degree that felt as worthless as the paper it was printed on. I saw where it was going and chose to withdraw from the school environment and homeschool my own children. In my opinion, the whole education system as it now stands is rotten to the core and needs to be disbanded. We should make parents responsible for their own children - if they choose to have someone else educate their children, it should be in very small neighborhood schools with a single teacher for a few children, and the parents in direct supervision, backing a teacher they have hired and pay out of their own pockets or via a voucher. It would require parents to once again take up the mantle of raising their own children instead of shifting the responsibility onto the government. It is already happening, and has been since parents realized what was going on in public schools, with the homeschool movement growing by leaps and bounds. I see it as the only solution; as you said: Only parents can reverse this trend; American authoritarianism is born in its “free” public schools.

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Adam's avatar

I get the impetus behind so-called restorative justice. Go for the root problems. All good. Except we forget some kids just don't want to be in school. And it's a darn shame we can't have apprenticeships and set them free.

Otherwise, the manipulative ones would game the whole system before multiple adults with masters degrees have the common sense to question basic motives.

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